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POLITICAL CLAMPING OF NIGERIA'S MEGA PORTS FOR BUNKERING PURPOSES. The man dies in him that keeps quiet in the faces of injustice.- Prof Wole Soyinka. I have come to terms that intentional efforts of government at making Delta and Rivers State seaports nonfunctional has always been targeted strictly for bunkering activities by our boirgoises in power and private capitalists, majority who are claiming over night billionaires. Take Delta State, for instance. It has four seaports in Warri, Burutu, Sapele and Koko, which combined capacity exceeds that of all other ports in Nigeria put together. In Rivers State, we have the Onne and Port-Harcourt ports in Rivers State. In Cross River, we have the Calabar Port which to the best of my knowledge is not yet in operation. Unlike open operation of Lagos seaports, Management of port operations at Port Harcourt has been commissioned out to two port operators, Ports and Terminal Operators and BUA Ports and Terminal, it is not operated by the NPA...

PERMISSION IN MARRIAGES. With the ongoing trend about permission in marriages,many people are not ripe for marriage. I had said that if you are not mentally ripe for marriage, don't go into it.  First lesson in determining if you are ripe for marriage is in detecting that you have developed the spirit of letting go. Once you are mentally matured, in marriage you would see that a woman's acts are naturally carved into them and not an attitude of witchcraft or wickedness. You would have prepared your mind as a man even before marriage in expectation of the unexpected in their behaviour and vice versa. Now, how does permission works in marriage? It's a vital aspect of marriage and either party should know areas that permission is sought first before doing anything. It's not in all areas. Personally, as a man,I believe strongly that my major assignment is to provide money, protect my family( I'm 100% alms at akimbo about this)  and ensure moral disciplines in my childre...

DOCTOR THIS IS MY FIFTH MISCARRIAGE IN FIVE YEARS OF MARRIAGE; WHO DID I OFFEND?: A SHOCKING REVELATION FROM INSIDE MY CONSULTING ROOM I have the permission of Mrs Funke to share her painful life journey with you so that you can learn from her bitter experience. I was inside my consulting room on the fateful day when a young married woman,25 years old, walked in,looking depressed. She sighed as she sat. The perplexity on her face said it all. There was a big burden being carried in her heart. I mustered the courage to ask "how may I help you madam?" then she answered in her frustration. "DOCTOR THIS IS MY FIFTH MISCARRIAGE IN FIVE YEARS OF MARRIAGE; WHO DID I OFFEND?"  Now it was like it was my turn to be frustrated because how could I know the person offended in this issue. Well I summoned courage to overcome the perplexity,I went further to be sure she actually had five miscarriages as she had said. "Madam Funke did you actually confirm these five pregnancies...

 A WOMAN'S OBSESSION. Every women are obsessed with whatever they loved be it human or material things. A man should know this and know peace. Majorly, men do not think like women. Only a very few women think like a man and we have seen them in the society yet, the traces of that obsessive trait is seen in them. I'm writing this short piece because of some absolute relationship position I have been reading online about women obsession and I need to drop my own experience and concept of women obsession.  Know this that a woman that loves you as a man is obsessed with you. She will go all length not only to have you as the husband but also to protect you but this obsession dies with child bearing as the marriage grows older. Every man must train himself to absorb the pressure of a woman obsessive exuberance. It is there naturally. If a woman is not obsessed about that love, the love is shaky. You can't kill a woman's obsessive emotion with nagging and being forceful press...